I want to begin with a memory that is not mine but has been told to me many times. An elder is asked why his grandson should still observe a custom that no one in the city remembers. The elder says: 'Because the river that forgets its source dries up — and because the custom still works. Try it for a year and tell me which is true.' Whether or not it ever happened, the memory teaches what Àṣà is — better than any definition does. Àṣà for Leaders? The story is the answer.
What Àṣà Actually Means
Translators usually settle on something like: Àṣà is a Yoruba word for tradition, custom, or culture — but with a particular emphasis. Unlike a Western reading of 'tradition' as fixed inheritance, àṣà names tradition as practice — the continuous, adaptive doing of what has been found to work. It includes language, ritual, food, dress, courtesy, and the unspoken protocols of community life. It is the answer to the question: what do we keep doing, even as everything changes? It is a defensible translation. But translation is the surface. Àṣà carries underneath it a set of assumptions — about what a person is, what owes what to whom, and what success even means — that the English sentence cannot deliver.
The river that forgets its source will dry up.Yoruba
The Question This Post Is About
What Àṣà asks of anyone with authority over others — and the kind of leader it produces. The question is worth taking seriously, because Àṣà is one of those concepts that loses its shape when handled carelessly — and recovers it as soon as the reader is willing to slow down and listen.
The most concrete way Àṣà shows up in working life is in how a manager handles failure. The Western reflex is to find the responsible individual, document the failure, and move on. Àṣà insists on a slower, harder question first: what did the team make possible, and what did it fail to prevent? The shift sounds soft. It is not. Team rituals are not abolished when they become inconvenient — they are revisited and renewed.
A Second Angle
In a long marriage, Àṣà is the antidote to the modern romantic fantasy that each partner is supposed to be the other's everything. The Yoruba / Nigerian version is gentler: you are part of a wider weave, and so is your marriage, and the marriage is held in part by the people around it. Team rituals are not abolished when they become inconvenient — they are revisited and renewed.
Where the Concept Resists
Àṣà is sometimes presented as the answer to the diseases of Western individualism. It is not, exactly. It is a different answer to a different question. Pretending it is a drop-in replacement for the modern self-help bookshelf does Àṣà a disservice — and the reader, too. The work of taking it seriously is harder than that.
What to Do With This
If you are new to Àṣà, the most useful place to start is not with a study or a course but with a question, asked of yourself, at the end of an ordinary day: who held me up today, and whom did I hold? Sit with the answer. Do not improve it yet. The concept will deepen on its own, repeated, over weeks. This is how Àṣà actually enters a life.